Have accurate information
Understanding sexuality from a scientific viewpoint is crucial for healthy attitudes. There is a reluctance to access accurate and comprehensive information. The secretive search is for the pleasure seeking or performance aspects. Misinformation from unreliable sources corrupts sexuality. Many form concepts from juicy materials in Google or from highly exaggerated pornographic images. Misconceptions are plenty, and quacks make big money out of confusion. Gaining clarity about science and the psychology of sexuality will be a strong foundation for healthier attitudes.
Better the relationship, the better the sexuality
Healthy sexuality is a multifaceted aspect of human experience that goes beyond mere pleasure or procreation. It’s about building intimacy, fostering emotional connection, and nurturing a deep sense of mutual respect and understanding. It’s a lifelong process that evolves over time.
Sexuality will be at its best in a healthy and warm relationship. Sexual rights are to be respected. True that sex can happen in even hostile or emotionally cold relationships. What it generates will be discontent.
Celebration of mutuality
Healthy sexuality is about mutual pleasure, satisfaction, and intimacy. When sexuality becomes a one-sided experience, focused solely on selfish individual pleasure, it can lose its positive and fulfilling nature. True connection and intimacy require mutual respect, understanding, and a shared experience of pleasure and satisfaction. The modern world has created new styles of sexuality, often prioritising pleasure and instant gratification. Cyberspace, too, has come in a big way, creating traps for the pleasure-seeking vulnerable. Healthy sexuality gets drowned in the run for pleasure or supremacy.
To weave beautiful sexuality, skills to make it healthy and comfortable are essential. How many have it? Can anyone talk about it?